(Pictures by Dave McKean from The Wolves in the Walls by Neil Gaiman)

Tuesday, February 06, 2007

ask, and ye shall receive

I took my laptop to the help desk last night and they confirmed my suspicion that it was irrevocably dead. I wasn't sure what to do about replacing it, other than hope my advisor would notice that it was broken and repeat his offer to buy me a new one, yet again.
The idea of asking him outright whether he would replace it seemed completely out of the question. Someone in the goals group I'm in wrote a draft email for me, but I just couldn't imagine actually sending it. I was so close to being willing to just pay for a new laptop myself and, worse, allow a friend to follow through on a threat to cut off a toe if I didn't email my advisor, because I hate asking for things that much. In the end, I felt bad about considering my irrational fear worse than the amputation of a body part (even a very small one)*, so I sent the email.
My advisor immediately said yes, because he's nice like that and I really shouldn't have been worried, so I've been looking at laptops online today. You'd think I'd learn from sending the email that even things that seem impossible aren't really that bad, but I think it will probably still take the threat of bodily harm to someone I like to get me to overcome my fear.


*Although, I might not feel sufficiently bad for just anyone, so this is a risky motivational strategy.

8 Comments:

At 9:00 PM, Blogger sheepish said...

Good for you for asking.

In the grand scheme of things, $1500 for a new laptop every couple of years is a tiny in the bucket of research dollars. Grad students already cost $40k or more anyway, so what's another little bit on that?

 
At 9:02 PM, Blogger Lucy said...

Oh, now I feel bad about how little productivity my advisor gets for all that money...

 
At 9:46 PM, Blogger kermitthefrog said...

Perhaps this is irrelevant, but did your friend threaten to cut off your toe, or your friend's toe? It seems like it might make a difference. :)

 
At 3:24 PM, Blogger Lucy said...

Not my toe. I'm not sure if that would make me more or less likely to give in... :)

 
At 4:39 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

That's awesome. I can't imagine any scenario in which my department would spring for a laptop...(I'm buying my own course books for my tutorial). So I'm envious, but happy for you. :)

 
At 10:42 PM, Blogger sheepish said...

Don't feel bad. It's public money you're using, not your advisor's money. Hope that helps! :)

 
At 2:30 AM, Blogger Tom Volscho said...

ibm thinkpad t60

 
At 11:17 AM, Blogger Lucy said...

Luckybuzz, I am very lucky to be in a well-funded field.

Sheepish, that makes it so much better, thanks...

Tom, that would be nice, but I think I'm stuck getting a dell since it's going through the lab IT people.

 

Post a Comment

<< Home